I was just at Planet Fitness and this smoke show was working out on the Smith machine next to me. I rarely talk to women at the gym, but I noticed she was doing squats in a really unconventionally way (no hands) so I went to up to her to ask her about it. Tbh my first motivation was just curiosity because I’m really interested in unconventional exercises.
She was nice, great smile, just moved here from Vegas. I never ask for a girl’s number if she doesn’t give me some initial signal like eye contact or a smile (I figure if she likes me, she will do something next time to signal she wants me to talk to her again.) Anyway, she’s about my height, in fact she told me she does squats that way because she has long legs.
We had a nice chat about fitness, etc, but circling back to the topic, I find that unless you have really strong personality chemistry, it’s difficult to get masculine-feminine contrast energy when the man isn’t at least a few inches taller than the woman. So, I kind of do understand where women are coming from when it comes to immediate spark and attraction.
I don’t think the height is necessary, and there can still be attraction, but it may take longer to develop it, so if were just filtering out matches like women do (since they have so many options and a numbers advantage), I’d probably just filter out taller girls to narrow it down. Still open minded but being targeted. Gotta understand women on dating apps have so many matches and eager men.